Jason allows his girlfriend to shape and control his behavio…

Jason allows his girlfriend to shape and control his behavior (tell him what to do) because he is more in love with her than she is with him. He is afraid she’ll leave him if he doesn’t do the things she wants. Which principle of relational influence does this relate to?

Paul and Dave got into a debate about politics at work.  As…

Paul and Dave got into a debate about politics at work.  As their disagreement in values became clear, their volume increased, as did their negative tone.  However, before it got too out of hand, Dave said, “Hey…clearly we are on different sides here but there’s no reason for us to fight.  I suggest we slow down and try to look at it from the other’s perspective, but avoid blaming the other side.” and Paul agreed.  Their conversation was more productive after that.  In this situation, they were able to _____ their conversation.