Jen is talking with her fiancé about plans for their wedding…

Jen is talking with her fiancé about plans for their wedding and makes some unkind remarks about his family. She notices he suddenly gets very quiet, his smile disappears, and he looks down. Jen believes the safety of the conversation may be at risk. To rebuild safety she needs to: (Mark all that apply)

Your coworker keeps taking advantage of you at work by givin…

Your coworker keeps taking advantage of you at work by giving you tasks that really should be his responsibility, not yours! Deep down you are very upset but quickly justify his actions by thoughts such as: He did help me get hired, I really shouldn’t get upset or I can’t believe I am thinking those rude thoughts about my coworker, I am such a horrible person! This would be an example of which mismanagement style?

Sandra acknowledges that God has blessed her with many talen…

Sandra acknowledges that God has blessed her with many talents. Among one of her better talents is her ability to show compassion. She recognizes that not only does this bless the lives of others but she also feels less lonely and depressed when she feels compassion. Thus when she is feeling lonely or depressed she looks for ways to serve and alleviate the suffering of others. Pargament refers to this as what kind of spiritual approach to control: